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The last several days -- ever since my last entry, probably -- are a muddy, muddled, murky blur as I try to sort them out into a proper order as I type this.

There were some good moments to be sure, but the bad ones dominate my thoughts at the moment.

My "Uncle" Richard -- the family friend since before I was born whom I talked about a few months ago -- was hospitalized last weekend, and died this past Tuesday due to his lung cancer. We buried him on Thursday. He and Marvin had been together for 39 years and 3 months.

Saturday morning, at the church where I work, the Sexton was doing his usual morning check of the buildings when a finely dressed gentleman approached him, expressing an interest in touring the church and parish house's hall as he'd like to get married there. No sooner were they inside when a second man joined them, and both of them pulled guns on the Sexton. They robbed him, and forced him to open most of the rooms as they searched the church for the collection money. They definitely came to the wrong church (even if it wasn't the wrong day as well) for that. Thankfully, neither the Sexton nor his dog were injured, and for reasons perhaps only known to God, they were spooked off by something before stealing anything beyond what they had gotten off of the sexton.

Suffice it to say that I am rethinking what I do when I am working alone there in the office. Baloo might not like climbing the stairs leading up there, but he just might find himself going over there on the days that I have to work alone.


In other, brighter news. Rehearsal work on the play is going great! At the moment, it seems that I will be playing 4 roles: the named roles of Dennis (Act I, Scene I) and William (Act V, Scene I); and one each of the lords associated with Duke Frederick and Duke Senior. It looks like we'll be doing the play on the church's lawn, which, though not their first choice, might end up being easier and better for us in a number of respects, not the least of which is the easy option of moving the show into the parish house's hall should it rain!

The news, Wednesday morning, of Richard's death actually solved that problem that I mentioned in my last post. Mom came to the rehearsal that night, not wanting to be alone with her thoughts, and got to see what it was that we actually do there all night, and how it is possible for the ending time to be rather fuzzy and constantly being pushed back. It was actually cool having her there as she brought goodies: watermelon, sherbert, grapes, and an assortment of chips and munchies of that like.

Friday night was, by far, the best night of the week. In place of rehearsals we had an improve class. Mom was rather amused watching me until I dragged her into the action -- one of the other stage moms was also in the class, so mine couldn't easily worm her way out of it. She wasn't happy at first, but by the end of the night she was eagerly looking forward to next week's improve class.

My quest to get Queer As Folk: Season One from the library was foiled by people who had taken out the videos only to never return them. All I got of Season I was tape #4 of a five-tape set. *grumble* So I coughed up some money and joined Blockbusters and rented #1-4 of the 6-DVD set (5 and 6 were all rented out), and started watching it........ with mom. I have never seen QAF until now, so there are parts of each episode (we've viewed ep. 1 thru 12 so far) that are... *ahem* ...a bit uncomfortable to watch with her (oddly, especially the lesbian sex scenes).

That's all for now.
 
 
 
 
 
 
QAF is a brilliant light in my dull little life. But the lesbians are so pointless...and I can say this as as omeone who actually *likes* seeing girls get down. For a show that's supposed to be more compelling than your average stereotype, nearly every single female character seems to defeat that purpose.

But Emmett is just plain special. Especially when he actually develops a character in later seasons -- you'll see ^_^
Emmett won me over when they were talking about cleaning up Ted's apartment before his mother went there (when Ted was in the coma), and he says something to the effect of 'what if he gave some away (dildos) as hostest gifts?'

I am so sorry to hear about your 'Uncle'. {{{{{hugs}}}}}}} to your family. But I am glad to see that the week turned out good. Baloo will probably like being with you more than he dislikes the stairs.
AJ, I'm sooooo sorry to hear about Richard! If there's anything I can do, even if it's just listening, please let me know.

I'm also mortified to hear that one of your coworkers was robbed at gunpoint. That totally blows my mind. What is wrong with people? I mean, even CRIMINALS usually have enough of a moral standard that they choose to rob banks rather than churches!

I was the office manager at a church a few years ago, and I was there by myself most of the time. The minister was only there once or twice during the week. Every now and then, there would be somebody who would come in and just want to "look around" and some of them were very odd. What made it worse was that the office was setup in such a way that my back was to the door, and occasionally people would come in so quietly that I wouldn't know they were there until they cleared their throat or tapped me on the shoulder. That resulted in coffee on my keyboard on more than one occasion.

If you can bring Baloo with you to work, even if it's just occasionally, I say go for it! Think of how nice it would be to have your baby with you, and I'm sure Baloo would love it. Does he have a fear of stairs, or is it just difficult for him to walk up them? My ex's dog is part German Shepard and he's always been scared of stairs.

Anyway, I hope you have a good week and I'm thrilled to hear that you're enjoying your work with the theatre group. Keep in touch!
Thanks for the offer to listen. I could use it, provided I can find the energy to go online at the end of the day. I miss our hours-long conversations. I don't suppose I could talk you into coming to Brooklyn to see the play, huh? ;o)

Baloo has no trouble walking up stairs, or down a short (3 or 4) set of them. But the office door is at the top of a long and slightly steeper than normal flight of stairs. The first time I brought him to the office, he made it up easily enough, but when it came time to leave, he turned himself into a lovely carpet and acted as if I was trying to throw him into a fire (or the bath tub).

I'm very sorry to hear about Richard and the robbery. That really sucks.